Client Success Stories

I am humbled and thrilled with the progress clients make as they learn how to self-heal their body-mind. For me, teaching people how to take back control of their health and wellbeing is the most satisfying thing I can do as a health coach! This is the future of medicine... here now.

From all the stories below on recovery from severe physical symptoms, only emotional management, emotional healing and lifestyle changes were needed to achieve these results!

When you understand the power of the mind and emotions to either create havoc or health, you will know why I am so passionate about teaching people emotional alchemy!

Messages of Gratitude

Over the years I have helped many people make their way through challenging health and life circumstances. Here are a few messages.

'My husband and I would not be together still without your help'

Fiona shares how she went from being hospitalized, barely able to move and unable to take care of her children or family, to back to normal life in 6 months.

Recovery from Chronic Fatigue, Adrenal Fatigue and M.E.

From wheel chair to jogging

The following client was experiencing fatigue, brain fog, headaches and muscle weakness before treatment. This is what she reported back after working with Kim for 8 weeks:

Activities I could not do before treatment: Most activities.  I was almost housebound.  I was not working, and I spent most of the day on the couch watching TV or doing computer work.  When I went out and knew I would have to walk more than 0.5 miles, I would use a wheelchair.  I was not socializing outside my immediate family.

Activities I can do now: Almost all of my normal activities.  After 8 weeks, I am back at work full-time, I am playing with my son and going out on the weekends (just like I used to!).  I don't feel like there is any limit to the distance that I can walk, and I have even started jogging again.  I am now going out with friends again.  I went to a party last night for 4 hours and felt great!  I am confident that in a few more weeks, I will be completely back to my regular routine.  I know that I could not have come so far so quickly without Kim.

Julia, age 34 yrs, New York (USA) July 2010 *

 

'Without Kim our daughter would probably not be alive'

“I cannot speak highly enough of Kim. I can honestly say that without her there is a very real chance our daughter would not be with us today. By the time I found Kim our daughter’s battle with anorexia was desperate. She was within days of death. There have been three key things involved with our daughter’s recovery and Kim was one of these. Every day I am thankful for Kim – what she has done for our daughter and what this means to us as a family and me as a mum”.

AN, New Zealand

 

I made a full recovery from chronic fatigue

"Not only did I make a full recovery from chronic fatigue, I also learnt how to use certain tools that allowed me to take deal positively with the stresses of life as they arose rather than carrying them around and getting upset".

Kristin, 35yrs, Auckland, 2010

 

'You have given me my life back'

"I feel like I have just been handed the keys to life. You have unlocked the whole key to my life"

Comment from a client one week after her first session, symptom-level reduced from 7 to nearly 0 (out of 10), after months off work and her doctors saying they didn't know how to help her.

 

Overcoming Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS)

95% decrease in CFS symptoms after 6 weeks

The comments below were received after a 6 week program of treatment:

"Changes noticed since treatment: physical - decrease in muscle tension, nerve sensitivity in legs and teeth grinding. 95% reduction in CFS symptoms such as fatigue and brain fog. I can live with joy and spontaneity after being untied from old and often irrelevant emotional constraints. My hopes for the future have been restored because feeling better will allow me to live my dreams and values. I have become much more honest and authentic with myself and others. This has generated massive self-confidence. I have learned not to simply to judge and assume, but to first seek to understand and accept things before thinking of ways to help and improve myself and others".

AM, Australia

 

From chronic fatigue to travelling Europe

The comments below were received after a follow-up email was sent out two years after completing a series of personal sessions with Kim. Before treatment the teenage client was barely able to attend school. This is a report from her mother two years later:

"M. is in the UK where she is working as a nanny for five children! Number 6 on the way. So I guess you could say she is doing really well. Her life has certainly taken a turn for the better, she would have so much to tell you. She has been travelling Germany, Prague and Egypt in between times and plans to finish with them mid May to carry on her travels and wend her way home, being back here in November to take up her University course".

M.B. Auckland. 19 yrs, 2011

 

From exhaustion to winning New Zealand championship

The comments below were received after a follow-up email was sent out two years after completing a series of sessions with Kim. Before treatment the client had completely stopped her sports regime and was at home unable to work. This is what she reported two years on:

"Things are going great. I have been back riding motorcross for a while and I won the NZ women's title for that last year. I am also planning to go overseas to pursue racing over there. Thanks heaps for all your help".

L.A. 25yrs, 2011

 

I feel normal and healthy again

The following comment came after a 2 month program of sessions:

"Thanks again Kim for all your help, I am feeling amazing and have not had any symptoms for ages, had a normal cold recently and it actually just feels normal and healthy! Whenever I do have anything like symptoms I just deal with them straight away but know that I am healthy and happy."

HM, 29yrs, Christchurch, March 2011 *

 

I'm getting my life back!

The following comment came after one session with Kim:"

My health has improved significantly. I feel like I’m getting my life back!".

Linda, 30yrs, Auckland, October 2010 *

 

Letter to ME Society about remarkable recovery

This letter was written by a client who worked with Kim for 4 weeks in 2009:

"Here is a letter to publish in your newsletter if you can - I just wanted to share my "liberation" from CFS with my peers in Wellington. My name is Xavier, and I had suffered from "intense" CFS for a year and a half before a few sessions with Kim radically changed the course of the illness.

I hesitate to say "cure" but for me it was as close as you could get - the therapist taught me, in a few sessions, how to proactively work my way out of the "hole" that is CFS through a few simple but significant changes in my response to symptoms. If the whole thing sounds a bit gobbledy gooky to you, here is my hard-headed run-down on it.

The therapy offered is conversational in the form of roughly one hour sessions, face to face, or in my case, on the phone (only because the therapist was in Auckland!!).

The idea is that it is indeed a physical illness, not treatable by psychological or psycho-social means. This was for me a satisfactory causal explanation to an otherwise unexplained disease, although I'm still sceptical about some of the more peripheral discourse involved (which is at best hypothetical, as a result of the lack of scientific knowledge in this area).

And so the therapy teaches the CFS sufferer new ways of responding to everyday symptoms, which helps him/her to gradually - in my case over the course of a month - diminish and then eliminate symptoms altogether. Ultimately I can recommend this to any CFS sufferer on the basis that it worked, and quite dramatically so, for me. It is a new therapy and the research behind it - to explain why the hell it works so well! - is in its infancy (they are waiting for someone to commission large scale research). But it works. Hence why I'm writing to this magazine today, to share my experiences so that others, whose situation I was in not so long ago, might give it a shot. It could free you from CFS".

Xavier, Wellington

 

Onwards with life!

"I had M.E/ CFS for 6 years beginning in 2001 probably caused by being in a stressful job that I was not enjoying and several stressful events in my life all at once which I did not deal with well. I tried the naturopathic route and this gave some relief but not a full recovery.

When Kim explained things to me it seemed so simple - I went away and practiced using my what she taught me. It was amazing to see that actually symptoms were related to emotions and not just linked to what you ate and so on as I had been led to believe before with naturopaths and so on.

I continued to get better and just before Xmas 2006 I realised I no longer needed my sessions with Kim as I no longer had any M.E symptoms!! I am now about to get married and move back to the UK and am looking forward to it rather than dreading it as it would have been too much for me a year ago!! I am so glad that my dad sent me the literature about Kim!" 

Sandra, Natural Therapist, Auckland, age 32 yrs*

 

"Fatigue disappeared - emotional freedom instead"

The following comments are from a client who completed a 6 week program of treatment:

"My physical fatigue symptoms completely disappeared early on.  My anxiety has reduced immensely.  Emotionally, I can now allow myself to feel a range of emotions (even without knowing a specific reason behind them). Apart from the obvious lack of fatigue symptoms giving me physical energy, I am able to talk more frankly and express my thoughts more rather than being afraid of what people think of me."

Suzy, 30yrs, Auckland *

 

Dramatic changes after first session

The following comment came after a 2 month program with Kim:

"Everything has changed for me since working with Kim. Although I found out about her only a few weeks after my diagnosis things were pretty bad for me and I was very sick both mentally and emotionally. Now I am back to full health, I have had no symptoms for weeks since the end of the course and even after the first season I notice dramatic changes in my health. Now if I do feel any stress, tiredness, emotion or unease I am able to use the techniques that I learnt to identify what is troubling me and deal with things. I understand now that depression is a depression of emotions not a weakness and an inability to cope. I am able to identify emotions and act accordingly so that I remain in a healthy balanced state, this understanding has been very powerful."

HM, 29yrs, Christchurch, March 2011 *

 

It works!

"Yay Yay!! I feel so different!!"

Sonya, 35yrs, Southland, July 2010 *

 

I have my life back - I feel amazing!

The following comments are from a client who completed a 6 week program of treatment:

"Kim has helped me understand my symptoms and given me the tools to listen to what my body really wants and to act on it. My problems (chronic fatigue) I came with have now gone. I can now live a normal life and do everything I want to do. I feel amazing! The tools I have learnt are life long tools and I’m committed to making them a part of my every day life. What I liked most about working with her was how it all made such sense; that it wasn’t rocket science and that it really proved that how badly our society has become in ignoring what their body needs. Most of all I feel truly blessed that I stumbled across it as it has given the tools to live a healthy life".

Karen, 28yrs, Auckland, Juy 2010 *

 

Well in 8 weeks

The following client was experiencing the following symptoms before working with Kim:

  • Depleted adrenals, insufficient hormones, malnutrition and thyroid problems, (clinically diagnosed by doctor)
  • Itchy ears, constant fatigue, anxiety attacks, hair falling out in handfuls
  • Nausea, headaches, skin acne, cold sores, styes
  • Broken sleep, nails brittle and weak and huge mood swings
  • Poor concentration, poor memory

After 8 weeks all above symptoms showed significant improvement, some cleared completely, and this is what she had to say:

"I am a Natural Health Practitioner and suffered from Glandular Fever in my teens and then again at 20 yrs old. Since then, I have suffered from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome whenever my body felt like I was doing to much. After my studies I knew my emotions had a lot to do with my condition constantly arising. During my last pregnancy and for the 1st year of my baby's life I went into the worst stage. My Natural therapies and Counseling were helping me to not end up completely bed ridden but I was not getting better. To sum it up I was at Stage A - knew my condition, knew what was causing it but still couldn't get to Stage C - perfect health! Kim was my Stage B - they know my condition, they know what is causing it and they give you a step by step way to re-LIVE your life in perfect health.It is now 8 weeks on and I am living without my illness on a daily basis and THANKS to Kim I now have the tools to keep it that way".

Susan B. May 2010.

It's like magic getting my life back

"I'm going well, it's like magic getting my life back. Amazing not to have the daily issue of rests. I'm working on getting familiar with my new skills, so far so good. Thank you so much for your help and patience. I can't believe how differently I feel". 

Joan, age 45yrs, Napier*

 

100% fanstastic health!

"I just wanted to let you know that I have had 100% fantastic health since our last chat. There have been some stressful weeks at work and I have had one or two big nights out, and I haven't crashed at all".

Jennifer, age 26yrs, Northland*

 

Fatigue gone in 5 weeks

"I've had my first fatigue-free weekend in 6 months".

Sheryl, age 28yrs, Auckland, June 2010 *

 

* indicates name change for privacy reasons

'My life was in ruins. Now I’m studying to be a doctor'

Sebastian shares how he overcame chronic pain and fatigue in a few short weeks and was able to start living his life fully to fulfil his dreams and goals.

Recovery from Fibromyalgia and Pain

I have learnt so much!

"I have learnt to work out the difference between what I now call "emotional" tiredness and normal healthy tiredness.  I have learnt I am capable of making my life happen as I want it now.  And most importantly I have learnt to listen to the messages my body is sending me and act on them straight away.  I am not getting many negative emotions come up anymore and when they do I talk it out nicely and find a solution.  It is really interesting how sometimes the solution was not obvious but when I wrote the diary each night, I would see it straight away". 

Julie, Southland, age 26 yrs*

 

Everything has changed

Client feedback a 6 week program:

"Everything has changed for me since working with Kim. I was very sick both mentally and emotionally. Now I am back to full health, I have had no symptoms for weeks since the end of the course and even after the first season I notice dramatic changes in my health. Now if I do feel any stress, tiredness, emotion or unease I am able to use the techniques that I learnt to identify what is troubling me and deal with things. I understand now that depression is a depression of emotions not a weakness and an inability to cope. I am able to identify emotions and act accordingly so that I remain in a healthy balanced state, this understanding has been very powerful.

Sometimes I can't even remember how bad things were and I have to remind myself that only three months ago I was so unwell I struggled to put words together into a sentence, could hardly get out of bed, was miserably depressed and could not understand what was wrong with me, I couldn't face people and what I felt to be their judgements of me, slowly I gave up wanting to live and I had panic attacks regularly. These are things that I would never have believed would happen to me as I am and always have been a very intelligent active and happy person, doing things that others would not ever dream of doing.

Without Kim I would dread to think what would have happened to me. Now I have bounced back to my normal state of loving life and wanting to live life to the absolute maximum taking all the opportunities I can to live a different life. I was only sick for a month, and cannot imagine what it must be like for those I have met who have been sick for 16 years, they have given up hope now of finding a cure as they have tried everything and cannot afford to try another different therapy. The worst part about it is that they believe that there is no cure, that there can be no cure, because they have tried everything and have learnt to change their diet and lifestyle and just live with this disabling disease. Surely it is a miracle, and I am so very grateful now to my sickness to have had an ability to work through long lasting issues and have this new freedom to live a happier life than I was living before. This is such a simple technique it should be taught in school so that we all have the chance to learn and listen to our body. I am a new person, happier, healthier and able to communicate in a new way with people, I am free of feeling judged and pressured. Before working with Kim I did things mainly for others, now I am doing things for myself and I don't feel guilty about it any more. "

MH, Christchurch, 2011*

 

A Quantum Leap and A New Me

"I have made such a quantum leap...it was fairly bursting out of me! I am looking forward to and am enjoying the new me". 

Agnes, age 54yrs, Whangarei*

 

I so appreciate the support

"Thanks for your help. I really appreciate the support I get from you, and its really good to be able to get an outside opinion of someone who has been through something similar. Its been so great to be able to chat to you about stuff, and get a different view on things. Being able to open my mind to the bigger picture really helps to put things in perspective, and calms me down quite a bit".

Laura, age 28yrs, Wellington*

 

I'm sleeping better!

"I’ve had very few symptoms and I’m sleeping so much better – feel great!"

Joan, age 45yrs, Hastings*

 

Thanks for the wonderful tools

"Thanks Kim - really appreciate your time and all the wonderful tools you have given me – now its up to mel"

Sandra, Auckland, September 2010 *

 

I've found it really beneficial

"Thanks for all of this and for all your help - I've found it really beneficial"

Juno, Auckland, September 2010 *

 

A New Person

"Thank-you soo much for all your help! My parents have noticed a new girl!" 

Mindy, Southland, age 16 yrs*

 

Thanks for new knowledge and skills

"All is strengthening and improving as I put into practice my new knowledge and skills thanks to you. Sleep seems deeper and less broken... thank you for your guidance and support over the last weeks/months". 

Janine, Hastings, age 45 yrs*

 

No more brain fog!

"I have loads more energy than before and best of all no brain fog". 

Harry, Auckland, age 40 yrs*

 

I have a new life

"Kim has helped me to understand the underlying causes of my symptoms. It has helped me to understand that the symptoms are messages from the body which must be attended to. Kim taught me how to listen to the symptoms of my body and how to find out what my body wants me to do (and not to do). Overall, her therapy has given me the tools necessary to heal myself and to enjoy well-being for the rest of my life". 

John, age 20yrs, Fiji*

 

I cannot believe the big change!

"I just want to let you know, I had my meeting with the sales person today that was 'acting out' and it went amazing.  I cannot even believe that I have absolutely no anger at all.  He vented and was very upset.  He had a lot of pent up anger and bitterness.  I let him vent and get it all out and I never felt angry or intimidated.  We cleared up all the misperceptions and miscommunications and he was very happy and appreciative. This is really going to be such a big breakthrough for our company.  OH and for ME too. I cannot believe the big change in my emotional response to the situation today compared to before I talked to you.  WOW!! Thank you so much for your help and support. 

JM, USA

 

I'm not taking on other people's stuff

"The sessions I had were most helpful in enabling me to discern when behaviour of others towards me was innappropriate and damaging for me, and giving me the tools to address that behaviour as well as relieve myself from feeling somehow responsible for their behaviour. I am now very aware that I am only responsible for my own behaviour and that I have the primary responsibility for taking care of and protecting myself from emotional abuse. Thank you for your assistance on my journey towards wholeness. My wellbeing is improving".

Elaine, age 65yrs, Auckland

 

I'm able to open up, trust and put me first

"I have learned to spend time with people who are good for me, and to keep away from the people who create stress and drama in my life un-necesarily, and I was able to let go of the sense of responsibility I felt towards people in my family. I am very grateful for the sessions I had with you, and how hard you were on me sometimes. It was exactly what I needed! It's amazing to me how far I have come in the last couple of years. I'm a completely different person now."

JC, Wellington

 

Untied from emotional constraints

"I can live with joy and spontaneity after being untied from old and often irrelevant emotional constraints. My hopes for the future have been restored because feeling better will allow me to live my dreams and values. I have become much more honest and authentic with myself and others. This has generated massive self-confidence. I have learned not to simply to judge and assume, but to first seek to understand and accept things before thinking of ways to help and improve myself and others".

AM, Australia

 

Greater self-awareness and choice

"I'm mentally a lot more relaxed and emotionally less uptight. My awareness of how and what creates the stresses in my life and what I can do to eliminate or alleviate them has been very powerful. The 5 step process [really helps] because it really brings my awareness to the underlying causes of what stresses me; the balanced plan [helps] because it made me prioritse what really is and isn’t important and to say NO to those that aren’t."

JN, Corporate Manager, 2011

 

Freedom to express myself

"I have been able to really open myself up, which has allowed me to build stronger relationships with the people around me. The techniques I found most useful was the writing down of current symptoms, and to put down on paper my emotions and why I feel that way. I still use it when my emotions get on top of me to sort out what the real issues are, and go through the process of allowing myself to feel, and also to speak up in difficult moments to express how I feel and what I need". 

JC, Wellington, 2011

 

You have helped to change my whole life

The comments below were received 6 months after a 6 week program for chronic fatigue:

"I have wanted to write to you for a while now and say to you that I am 100% healthy and have not even had a cold since our last session!! Isn't that amazing. People ask me if I think I actually had chronic fatigue as they don't believe that I could have actually had it and recovered completely in such a short period!! Thank you so much, please know that you have helped to change my whole life".

MH, New Zealand

 

Now I see there are no bad emotions

"Now I have bounced back to my normal state of loving life and wanting to live life to the absolute maximum taking all the opportunities I can to live a different life. I am free of so many issues that had weighed me down to the point where I was unable to get out of bed. I am a new person, happier, healthier and able to communicate in a new way with people, I am free of feeling judged and pressured. Before meeting Kim I did things mainly for others, now I am doing things for myself and I don't feel guilty about it any more.

The step-by-step step process of identifying emotions was the most useful for me, I had been so used to missing thing critial step of knowing how I felt. I had felt before that some emotions were bad such as anger and so I had disallowed anger from my life, this caused me to supress it to the point where I would feel a symptom rather than an emotion. Now I am able to see that there is no 'bad' emotions, they all serve a purpose."

MH, Environmentalist , 2011

 

Fatigue gone in 5 weeks

"I've had my first fatigue-free weekend in 6 months".

Sheryl, age 28yrs, Auckland, June 2010 *

 

On the path to recovery

I've been doing well since we ended the treatment and I see myself on the path to full recovery. Yet, I make sure not to get over-confident and still apply the tools you taught me regularly". 

John, age 20yrs, Fiji*

 

I'm doing well!

"Just so you know I am doing very well and moving forward with my life, thanks for your help".

Tracey, North Island, age 24 yrs*

 

* indicates name change for privacy reasons

Recovery from Fibromyalgia

Ram describes how he recovered fully from fibromyalgia within 6 months after several doctors and specialists said he would at best only ever be able to ‘manage’ his symptoms.

Overcoming Depression and Anxiety without medication

Overcoming Depression

"I now understand depression is not a weakness"

The following comment came after a 2 month program with Kim:

"I understand now that depression is a de-pression of emotions not a weakness and an inability to cope. I am able to identify emotions and act accordingly so that I remain in a healthy balanced state, this understanding has been very powerful. The step-by-step process of identifying emotions was the most useful for me, I had been so used to missing thing critical step of knowing how I felt - I had felt before that some emotions were bad such as anger and so I had disallowed anger from my life, this caused me to suppress it to the point where I would feel a symptom rather than an emotion. Now I am able to see that there are no 'bad' emotions, they all serve a purpose".

HM, 29yrs, Christchurch, March 2011 *

 

A new person, a new life

The following client had been struggling with depression for 9 years. After 6 sessions this was his feedback:

"I’m a completely different person. I’m calmer, more centred, confident and have more energy. I’ve managed, with my wife, to start our own business. I’ve been tied up with lawyers and accountants etc which in itself is incredible as I wouldn’t have been able to do so a few months ago! Thank you!!!!" And his wife said: "You have made such a difference to his world, it's absolutely wonderful having the man I married back!"

 JC, Auckland, 2011

 

I'm able to stop anti-depressants

Client feedback after one session:

"I have noticed already a subsidance in my symptoms and also noticed today that I didn't want to cover my symptoms but was happy when they were noticed as I was able to deal directly with them. I am especially happy that the diarhea that I was experiencing has seemed to stop. It also gave me the confidence to stop taking anti-depressants, which has had no change to my mood, and also made me very relieved to have found Kim. It also helped to understand that her strategies are the most helpful course of therapy".

Olivia, Southland, January 2011

 

I cannot believe the big change!

"I just want to let you know, I had my meeting with the sales person today that was 'acting out' and it went amazing.  I cannot even believe that I have absolutely no anger at all.  He vented and was very upset.  He had a lot of pent up anger and bitterness.  I let him vent and get it all out and I never felt angry or intimidated.  We cleared up all the misperceptions and miscommunications and he was very happy and appreciative. This is really going to be such a big breakthrough for our company.  OH and for ME too. I cannot believe the big change in my emotional response to the situation today compared to before I talked to you.  WOW!! Thank you so much for your help and support. 

JM, USA

 

I'm not taking on other people's stuff

"The sessions I had were most helpful in enabling me to discern when behaviour of others towards me was innappropriate and damaging for me, and giving me the tools to address that behaviour as well as relieve myself from feeling somehow responsible for their behaviour. I am now very aware that I am only responsible for my own behaviour and that I have the primary responsibility for taking care of and protecting myself from emotional abuse. Thank you for your assistance on my journey towards wholeness. My wellbeing is improving".

Elaine, age 65yrs, Auckland

 

I'm able to open up, trust and put me first

"I have learned to spend time with people who are good for me, and to keep away from the people who create stress and drama in my life un-necesarily, and I was able to let go of the sense of responsibility I felt towards people in my family. I am very grateful for the sessions I had with you, and how hard you were on me sometimes. It was exactly what I needed! It's amazing to me how far I have come in the last couple of years. I'm a completely different person now."

JC, Wellington

 

Untied from emotional constraints

"I can live with joy and spontaneity after being untied from old and often irrelevant emotional constraints. My hopes for the future have been restored because feeling better will allow me to live my dreams and values. I have become much more honest and authentic with myself and others. This has generated massive self-confidence. I have learned not to simply to judge and assume, but to first seek to understand and accept things before thinking of ways to help and improve myself and others".

AM, Australia

 

Greater self-awareness and choice

"I'm mentally a lot more relaxed and emotionally less uptight. My awareness of how and what creates the stresses in my life and what I can do to eliminate or alleviate them has been very powerful. The 5 step process [really helps] because it really brings my awareness to the underlying causes of what stresses me; the balanced plan [helps] because it made me prioritse what really is and isn’t important and to say NO to those that aren’t."

JN, Corporate Manager, 2011

 

Freedom to express myself

"I have been able to really open myself up, which has allowed me to build stronger relationships with the people around me. The techniques I found most useful was the writing down of current symptoms, and to put down on paper my emotions and why I feel that way. I still use it when my emotions get on top of me to sort out what the real issues are, and go through the process of allowing myself to feel, and also to speak up in difficult moments to express how I feel and what I need". 

JC, Wellington, 2011

 

You have helped to change my whole life

The comments below were received 6 months after a 6 week program for chronic fatigue:

"I have wanted to write to you for a while now and say to you that I am 100% healthy and have not even had a cold since our last session!! Isn't that amazing. People ask me if I think I actually had chronic fatigue as they don't believe that I could have actually had it and recovered completely in such a short period!! Thank you so much, please know that you have helped to change my whole life".

MH, New Zealand

 

Now I see there are no bad emotions

"Now I have bounced back to my normal state of loving life and wanting to live life to the absolute maximum taking all the opportunities I can to live a different life. I am free of so many issues that had weighed me down to the point where I was unable to get out of bed. I am a new person, happier, healthier and able to communicate in a new way with people, I am free of feeling judged and pressured. Before meeting Kim I did things mainly for others, now I am doing things for myself and I don't feel guilty about it any more.

The step-by-step step process of identifying emotions was the most useful for me, I had been so used to missing thing critial step of knowing how I felt. I had felt before that some emotions were bad such as anger and so I had disallowed anger from my life, this caused me to supress it to the point where I would feel a symptom rather than an emotion. Now I am able to see that there is no 'bad' emotions, they all serve a purpose."

MH, Environmentalist , 2011

 

On the path to recovery

I've been doing well since we ended the treatment and I see myself on the path to full recovery. Yet, I make sure not to get over-confident and still apply the tools you taught me regularly". 

John, age 20yrs, Fiji*

 

I'm doing well!

"Just so you know I am doing very well and moving forward with my life, thanks for your help".

Tracey, North Island, age 24 yrs*

 

* indicates name change for privacy reasons

'I never would have been able to figure this out by myself – it’s been priceless!'

Naturopath and Pharmacist Evie shares how her health and life improved dramatically in 3 months. She knew something was missing and needed to address things at an emotional level to get the change she was seeking.

Emotional Mastery and Managing Difficult People

I cannot believe the big change!

"I just want to let you know, I had my meeting with the sales person today that was 'acting out' and it went amazing.  I cannot even believe that I have absolutely no anger at all.  He vented and was very upset.  He had a lot of pent up anger and bitterness.  I let him vent and get it all out and I never felt angry or intimidated.  We cleared up all the misperceptions and miscommunications and he was very happy and appreciative. This is really going to be such a big breakthrough for our company.  OH and for ME too. I cannot believe the big change in my emotional response to the situation today compared to before I talked to you.  WOW!! Thank you so much for your help and support. 

JM, USA

 

I'm not taking on other people's stuff

"The sessions I had were most helpful in enabling me to discern when behaviour of others towards me was innappropriate and damaging for me, and giving me the tools to address that behaviour as well as relieve myself from feeling somehow responsible for their behaviour. I am now very aware that I am only responsible for my own behaviour and that I have the primary responsibility for taking care of and protecting myself from emotional abuse. Thank you for your assistance on my journey towards wholeness. My wellbeing is improving".

Elaine, age 65yrs, Auckland

 

I'm able to open up, trust and put me first

"I have learned to spend time with people who are good for me, and to keep away from the people who create stress and drama in my life un-necesarily, and I was able to let go of the sense of responsibility I felt towards people in my family. I am very grateful for the sessions I had with you, and how hard you were on me sometimes. It was exactly what I needed! It's amazing to me how far I have come in the last couple of years. I'm a completely different person now."

JC, Wellington

 

Untied from emotional constraints

"I can live with joy and spontaneity after being untied from old and often irrelevant emotional constraints. My hopes for the future have been restored because feeling better will allow me to live my dreams and values. I have become much more honest and authentic with myself and others. This has generated massive self-confidence. I have learned not to simply to judge and assume, but to first seek to understand and accept things before thinking of ways to help and improve myself and others".

AM, Australia

 

Greater self-awareness and choice

"I'm mentally a lot more relaxed and emotionally less uptight. My awareness of how and what creates the stresses in my life and what I can do to eliminate or alleviate them has been very powerful. The 5 step process [really helps] because it really brings my awareness to the underlying causes of what stresses me; the balanced plan [helps] because it made me prioritse what really is and isn’t important and to say NO to those that aren’t."

JN, Corporate Manager, 2011

 

Freedom to express myself

"I have been able to really open myself up, which has allowed me to build stronger relationships with the people around me. The techniques I found most useful was the writing down of current symptoms, and to put down on paper my emotions and why I feel that way. I still use it when my emotions get on top of me to sort out what the real issues are, and go through the process of allowing myself to feel, and also to speak up in difficult moments to express how I feel and what I need". 

JC, Wellington, 2011

 

You have helped to change my whole life

The comments below were received 6 months after a 6 week program for chronic fatigue:

"I have wanted to write to you for a while now and say to you that I am 100% healthy and have not even had a cold since our last session!! Isn't that amazing. People ask me if I think I actually had chronic fatigue as they don't believe that I could have actually had it and recovered completely in such a short period!! Thank you so much, please know that you have helped to change my whole life".

MH, New Zealand

 

Now I see there are no bad emotions

"Now I have bounced back to my normal state of loving life and wanting to live life to the absolute maximum taking all the opportunities I can to live a different life. I am free of so many issues that had weighed me down to the point where I was unable to get out of bed. I am a new person, happier, healthier and able to communicate in a new way with people, I am free of feeling judged and pressured. Before meeting Kim I did things mainly for others, now I am doing things for myself and I don't feel guilty about it any more.

The step-by-step step process of identifying emotions was the most useful for me, I had been so used to missing thing critial step of knowing how I felt. I had felt before that some emotions were bad such as anger and so I had disallowed anger from my life, this caused me to supress it to the point where I would feel a symptom rather than an emotion. Now I am able to see that there is no 'bad' emotions, they all serve a purpose."

MH, Environmentalist , 2011

 

On the path to recovery

I've been doing well since we ended the treatment and I see myself on the path to full recovery. Yet, I make sure not to get over-confident and still apply the tools you taught me regularly". 

John, age 20yrs, Fiji*

 

I'm doing well!

"Just so you know I am doing very well and moving forward with my life, thanks for your help".

Tracey, North Island, age 24 yrs*

 

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